A year makes

Cozy It’s been nearly a year now since you died.  A year full of checking boxes of things off the list.  First summer, first Thanksgiving, first birthday, first Christmas and now the list has come to an end. There are no more boxes to check; no more firsts on the list.  So now what is […]

Lasts

I guess plenty of grieving people wonder what they could have done differently, wonder if they had done something differently would the dead still be alive.  I don’t really think there is anything different I could have or would have done differently with dad.  I am not even really sure it is productive to think […]